3 Qualities that you must have to become a leader.

become a leader not a follower

This topic is crucial. In this society, leaders are the need of this country. I tell you what I feel. World has 700 crores people and no one exists without purpose. Everyone has a contribution to the world and has something to give. When people ask how to know what their destiny is, I tell them they don't have to worry about destiny, it will find them. keep working hard and you will eventually know what your purpose in  life is. Some will know when they are 50 years old and some will know it when they are 10 years old. We need leaders, not followers. You don't need a title to become a leader.  You need to have a sense of responsibility of being a leader to do something for the world.

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There are 3 stages to the leadership:

1. Thought leadership.

A leader's belief is different; his thought process is different. A leader knows that everyone needs appreciation. When your mother asks you how the food is cooked, she is looking for appreciation. Leaders have a different thought process.
They know that people will perform only when you appreciate them. A leader wants others to follow their vision. If your employees are not doing what you want them to do, then you haven't showed them that by which they could be inspired or motivated.
A leader knows this and he doesn't want credit, he always gives credit.

APJ Abdul kalam was made a project leader and his project was to send a satellite into space. ISRO's project was running smoothly and the day arrived when it was to be launched. But the lunch failed on the day. Everyone asked whose fault it was and why it didn't work. Kalam being project director was answerable but his manager, Satish Dhawan stopped him and he went to the conference and he took the blame for it. He complimented his team and promised the mission will be a successful next time. Th emission was successful next time and in the press Satish sent Kalam to face them. A leader will always praise and give credit to others. We have the habit of taking credit when things go right and not when they go wrong. We need to change that.

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2. Expressional Leadership.

If I ask you how you are and you respond you are fine. Your response depends a lot on your body language. If your response is dull then you will expect people to ask you more about you. People love attention. But here whoever is truly listening, will move away from you if he comes to know that you aren't doing well health wise which could be visible in your body language. Don't live  in a victim mindset. Instead respond positively and your body will feel the same way.
The way you speak, your body will respond accordingly. So next time someone asks you how you are doing, tell them you are amazing. You don't have to be bossy or abusive. You need to be a leader. Change the vocabulary in your dictionary. Leaders only believe in challenges. When they change the problem into the challenge, they get a feeling of a winner. A winner overcomes a challenge.

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3. Personal Leadership.

personal leadership


You have to put control over yourself. Everyone is watching you. As a leader you need to do everything perfectly As a masterpiece. It is challenging, but you need to be the leader. Be the example for everyone. You need to have self discipline if you don't then it would be difficult for you but not impossible make yourself disciplined to achieve what 90% people can't.
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Influence people with your vision. Implement what you have learnt today and be the leader.
And do share it with others also.

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